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1. Ask Yourself: What Do I Want?
To know what you want is the first step for you to get it. If you don’t know what you want, how are you supposed to get it? Many people know what they don’t want, but that does not help them to get what they do want.

Walking through life with a clear understanding of what you don’t want is not sufficient to empower yourself. It is like going shopping with a list of items you don’t want to purchase. It can help to keep you away from the things you don’t want, but it does not help you to get the things you do want.

So ask yourself, “What do I want?” and keep listening until you hear a reply from within.

I want to share some "guidelines for a successful life" that you may not have come across in your formal educational process. I unashamedly describe myself as a formerly shy, low self-esteem underachiever with a bad attitude -- in other words, I was a pretty normal young adult. You may be able to relate to that, along with feeling lost, confused, scared, frustrated and depressed about your prospects for the future. If that's the case, don't despair -- I believe most people have a similar experience, something like: "OK -- I've got my degree(s) ... now what???" Relax -- you're not crazy, and you're not stupid -- you just haven't been given a REAL education on what it takes to be successful.

So here are a few guidelines and resources I can share that helped me get it together: